Absolut Commitment
Its been months since i blogged. Flashing back the time when I knew Darling is pregnant. I was helpless, the only person I could seek help from and advice is from my mum. I remember that I called her up 6am in the morning and told her about it. Surprisely she wasn't shock but asked me calmly what I'n going to do. I said either married and keep the baby or else abortion. She left me to make my own decision.
After I got home, Dad told me the same thing also and I told him i choose to get married after discussing with Daling. At noon I called up Darling's mum, she wasn't surprise too. That's so unbelievable, both our parent were calm. As Dad is going China to work for months in 2 days time. He asked me to ask Darling's parents out to discuss about our marriage. After everything is said and done. Preparation started, next morning Dad called up someone to renovate our new room and repaint the whole house and polished the floor. After daD went china the next day, i was put resposible of all the things. I was assigned to alots tasks. "haa StrEss. I allowed Darling to get involve in the renovation of my room, by letting her decide the colour to paint on the walls. As for me i went to buy the paints and help the worker tear down the old closet. "hAa tiring!! Then I went IKEA and Courts to look for bedroom set. I even went to those bridal shop to look for wedding packages.. After getting approval from Darling, her Mum and my Mum. I went to booked the stuffs. I also accompanying mum go booked the ballroom and tables for the Wedding dinner.
During that period of time, Darling was having toothache. In the middle of the night moaning in pain. "haiz! Seein her like this, I also heart pain. I brought her to dental to check up. The Dentist gave her some Antibotite and Painkiller to take for a week before plucking her decayed tooth. Then weeks later we went took our wedding photoes. It was so fun getting dress in different kinda costumes and doing all sort of poses.. "haAa!! Days later daRling went plucked her tooth. After the tooth is taken away, her headache and pain also gone.. "gREat!! Then something came up again, this time is the pregnant sickess. She started vommiting and having stomach cramp, no appetite, hate perfume, sensitive. Totally changed person. I bought her to specialist to checkup, its was so damn cool. She did the ultrasound scan and we were able see the baby shape, got heart beats too!!! excited..!!
Also at that period of time, Grandmum fall down and was admitted in hospital. "haiz.. so damn sad to see her like that as she can't walk. She was admitted in TTS Hospital for a week before operation. Thank god the operation was successful, but she still gotta learn to walk again. I told my Grandmum she gotta learnt to walk again so she could help me look after me future baby. She was happy that she gotta be "Tai-ma" soon!! Then she was transfer to amk hospital to rest and practise walking. That period of time allowed me to understand alot of things. All my Uncles and Aunts took turn to come take care of my grandmum. I respect them, this is what I called family spirit. They even hired a maid to look after her and surprisely few of my Uncles and Aunts that never shown up in my Grandma birthday that time, shown up. Why wanna wait till thing happened then regret but at least they regret and shown up, I respect this!!
Then following weeks, I accompanyin my Mum, Uncle and Aunt go relatives house give invitation card and buy stuff for the Wedding ceremony. I also went to bought the jewellery for darling with my Aunt and Mum. The furniture was delivered also. I also bought the new pillows and stuff, almost everything done. I was so relief. I gotta thank Mum for helping so much while Dad's overseas. Also Thank to Dad for your financial support. Thank to my Aunts and Uncles for your help. Thank to my friends for your care and concern.. To Darling, Thank you for loving me!
